1 Peter 1:1-3:7 Review

Here is a quick over view of the Main and sub Points of 1 Peter 1:1 to 1 Peter 3:7

1 Peter

1:1-12                 Everything

              Main point: In Jesus I have everything

              1-2         God’s choice should lead to my obedience

              3-4         Praise for benefits (Born again, Living Hope/inheritance, Guarded)

              6-9         Trials equal testing (Future Glory, Obtaining Salvation)

              10-12    What you are experiencing prophets and angels only dreamed to

              Application:        What are you willing to trade your salvation for?

                                           Are you trying to live in isolation?

1:13-25               Transparent

              Main point: When people see you/us they should see the Father

              13          Set your hope on God’s grace (Your future hope is guaranteed by a past truth)

              14-16    The call to be holy

              17          Live in reverent fear of God, your judge

              18-21    Live in light of the high price paid

              22-25    Live in love

2:1-10                 Chosen or Rejected?

              Main point: Realizing their high calling, Christians are to be more than fans.

              1-3         Training for the team (What does it mean to feed the new life?)

              4-8         On the team (Which team are you on? The Christian life cannot be lived in isolation)

              9-10      Our calling

-          Chosen: Are we tempted to play up or down?

-          Royal: Do we really understand that we are children of the King?

-          Holy: Are we living set apart?

-          Treasured possession: Does this excite you?

-          God’s people: Mercy filled or not?

2:11-12               Winning the War

              Main point: Christianity is a call to live a radically different life in the midst of hostile opposition.

              A Two Front War:

-          Internal struggles and internal fruit

-          External struggles and outward fruit

Application: People are looking for Kingdom are you revealing it?

2:13-25               Free & Healed

              Main point: Christians are called to a life of service

              Key verses 16 & 24

              Key words: Free & Healed

              Maintaining status quo =

                             Missed ministry opportunities

                             I am comfortable

                             I’m not sent

                             I’m in rebellion

              Application:

-          What do I need to keep doing?

-          What do I need to stop doing?

-          How can I serve?

3:1-7                   Christian Marriage

              Main point: Dying to self is the key to submission and understanding

              For coal to become a diamond it need pressure…

              The Todd and Heidi Story

              Application:  How are you doing supporting your spouse in the following areas:

-          Spiritual

-          Emotional

-          Physical

-          Mental

Submission is an Attitude 1 Peter 3:8-13

Last Sunday our Executive Pastor, Ross preached. He did a good job reviewing the ground that I had covered and starting to wrestle with the second half of 1 Peter 3.

Here is the link and his outline.

Title: Submission is an Attitude

Link to Sermon: Submission is an Attitude

Our actions come from our attitude.

So if our actions are wrong our attitude is usually wrong.

In order for us to act differently, we must think differently!

1 Peter 1:13-14: Prepare your minds to think differently

In order to think differently, you need to:

- Understand who you are (Called) 1 Peter 1:15-16
- Understand whose you are (Chosen) 1 Peter 2:9-10
- Understand where you are (Not Home) 1 Peter 2:11
- Understand what you are to do (Live Godly lives) 1 Peter 2:12
- Understand how you are to live 1 Peter 3:8

Application:

Which area is God telling you to change?

 Harmony....Sympathy....Love....Compassion....Humble Yourself.

Christian Marriage 1 Peter 3:1-7

Text: 1 Peter 3:1-7

Link to sermon: Christian Marriage (1 Peter 3:1-7)  (Note: my wife, Heidi co-taught this lesson and you may have to turn up the volume to hear her)

Main Point: Dying to self is the key to submission and understanding

Submission and understanding are two key words in today's text.  They are also words that people have a hard time with.

Take a look at the following 3 pictures and decide which one represents your marriage or which one you want to represent your marriage.

Coal? Cubic Zirconia? or Diamond?  

Heidi and I have had couples from time to time look at our marriage and say "I want the marriage you have."  Put that on the shelf for a minute and ask yourself "What does a diamond start out as?"  Coal.  What does it take to make one?  Pressure.  Heidi and I have a great marriage, but you wouldn't want to go through what we have to produce the marriage that we have.  Let you trials be enough. When pressure comes into your marriage what are you allowing God to produce?  A diamond or two piles of coal dust?

Does a diamond come out of the ground ready to be set in a ring?  No it has to be cut.  (Note: This diamond illustration is a retweek of Eric Thomas' Shine Like a Diamond talk, he doesn't apply it to marriage). Everybody wants a great marriage, but most aren't willing to allow God to use the pressure/trails to produce the diamond.  Most aren't willing to die to self, so that the two can be come one.  Again, that take dying to self, living to Christ, so that you can both submit and live in an understanding way.

What you hear the word submit do you think negatively?  What does submission equal?  It doesn't equal slavery.  Peter is saying in the midst of your freedom submit.  Think of Jesus.  He submitted to the Father's plan to serve you.  People tend to get a little sideways when they hear the word submit, because they have a negative connotation of the word.  But it can be viewed in a positive light.  Heidi doesn't have a problem with submission, because in the end all the responsibility rests on my shoulders.  Let me translate that for you...she doesn't have a problem with submission, because it is my head that is on the chopping block...But I would add she also doesn't have a problem with submission because I live with her in an understanding way, take her advise and needs into consideration when making decisions.  If the two have died to self and become one submission is easy.

When you hear the term weaker vessel what do you think of?  Is this burly man and wimpy girl?  Or is it more the difference between these two pictures?

 Both hold water, but one is a little harder, firmer and stronger and one is more delicate, fancy and beautiful.  Men and women are equal, but different.  Peter isn't trying to belittle women, but rather point out there differences and challenge men that they are to cherish and delight in their wives rather than kick them around...

Here we transitioned to the Todd and Heidi story.  Two principles that have always been at the center of our marriage that have helped us live out these passages is communication and unity.  Take a listen...

We concluded with a challenge to explore your marriages asking how you are supporting one another in the following areas:

- Spiritual

- Emotional

- Physical

- Mental

Are you and your spouse one?  Are you dying to self, so that you can live in submission and unity?

Live Transformed 1 Peter 2:13-25

Text: 1 Peter 2:13-25

Link to sermon: Live Transformed 1 Peter 2:13-25

Main Point: Christians are called to a life of service.

Key Verses: 16 & 24

Key Words: Free & Healed

You have been set free and healed...why? So that you can live a life of service...

What does freedom mean to you?
 Some answers:
- free from bondage
- nothing in the way
- able to make your own choices
- discipline (if you are free, be careful that you do not use your freedom to become enslaved again....that takes discipline to avoid)
- tyranny

When one stops and thinks about freedom how often to they stop and think or ask what is the meaning/purpose of life?  Why do I exist? That typically doesn't even show up on the radar screen does it?  And yet if we are to be disciplined we need to ask ourselves that.  If we have been set free we need to ask ourselves the question: What have I been set free to do?  If we fail to ask that question then it is very easy to go off it a wide variety of directions and end up failing to use our freedom in the way we are supposed to do.  You have been set free to fulfill your calling and purpose...One could therefore say: "Hey wait a minute that means that I am not truly free...free to make a choice yes, but not truly free..." We were created with a purpose...but that purpose comes from outside of ourselves...we do not readily like that do we?  But God has set us free and called us for a purpose namely to serve Him and namely to serve Him through our service of others...

What does it mean to be healed?

- no more pain

What if by being healed you were going to feel more pain?  Peter's first hearer/readers were facing this.

- being whole
- being delivered

We have been healed and are now becoming whole.

How does Jesus provide both?

That is where the Gospel comes in...

How are we to use our freedom?

Ask yourself "How did Jesus?"  He submitted and served others.  Jesus did not consider equality with the Father something to be grasped, but rather stepped down into time/flesh...why?  To set the captives free.  He submitted himself to the Father's plan to serve you...what an example. See verses 21-23.

Humble yourself, trusting God to set things right in His time.

Application:

If we are free to serve, so what?

Managing status quo = ?

Managing status quo = missed ministry opportunities
Managing status quo = I am comfortable
Managing status quo = I'm not sent
Managing status quo = I am in rebellion

Action step:

- What do I need to keep doing?
- What do I need to stop doing?
- How can I serve?

Winning the War 1 Peter 2:11-12

Just a quick note to pass on the link to last Sunday's Sermon: Winning the War from 1 Peter 2:11-12

Winning the War

Count the Cost

Text: Luke 14:25-35

Link: Count the Cost
(Note that there is about a 3 minute delay before the recording plays, so skip ahead to about 2:55)

Link to song that is referenced in beginning: Jesus is Better by Aaron Ivey (Austin Stone): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTewCIvR7Og

Opening Question: Do we resonate with that song?  Do we truly believe that Jesus is better than anything?

Most Christians would answer "Yes" or "Yes, we have tasted and seen that He is better than anything."  And yet we find a tension and struggle do we not?

Main Point:  If we are going to see lives transformed for the glory of God (FBC's mission statement), than we must count the cost and be willing to give up everything for Jesus.

Most of us at FBC would say: "I have already counted the cost...I have decided to follow Jesus there is no going back and recounting the cost for me."  Which made me wonder do we have our presentation of the gospel correct.  If your presentation starts out with "Jesus has a wonderful plan for your life...a plan to prosper you...why would you not want to follow Jesus? Just turn your life over to Him and you will receive new life and all will go well with you."  Is that the gospel that you responded to?  What do you do when in the midst of living life everything goes south...things get bad...are you not tempted to say "Jesus isn't prospering me, why should I keep following Him?" or "God isn't taking care of me...I've prayed and He isn't taking care of me"  Are you not tempted to stumble and fall away?

Maybe our presentation of the gospel should start out with "Count the cost...yes, Jesus loves you...yes, He wants you to prosper, but that prospering may not happen on this side of eternity...what if your prospering doesn't happen until you stand face to face with Jesus in eternity?  Are you still willing to slug it out here?  Most of us would say still say "Yes", but what do you do when you come up against texts like today's that say things like "hate your parents..."  Some of us have no problem "hating" our parents, b/c we grew up in homes that were not exactly great...but at the end of the day I do not believe that kind of hate is what Jesus is talking about. Or "hate your spouse." Or "hate your children."  Again, we have to be careful we rightly understand what it looks like to "hate."  Or what about "hate your life." Is Jesus talking about self loathing?  I do not think so.

The hate that Jesus is talking about is positional...you cannot raise something above Jesus if you want to be His disciple...it does not mean the kind of hate...angst...seeing red...loathing, but rather Jesus is better than anything. (Note: Christian and Disciple are interchangeable...there is no "I am a Christian, but not a disciple" in Scripture...you are either a Christian Disciple a.k.a. follower of Jesus or you are not)...And if you are going to follow Him than you must love Him more than anything.

I will confess for me I love my wife dearly and at times it is hard to place Him above my wife and I have to catch myself and say "No, I will not go there...He has blessed me with a great wife, but I will not worship her..."  It is the same with my children....We must count the cost of this before we follow Jesus.  He must be of greater worth to us than everything.  He deserves my allegiance.

Have you ever asked yourself: "What does it cost me to follow Jesus?"

At this point I used an illustration from Greg Sidders book: The Invitation, p. 53-54

Between April 1967 and March 1973, he pledged allegiance to the United States flag hundreds of times.  So did Mike Christian.  The difference was, Greg did it in a class room, while Mike did it as a POW in a Vietnamese prison cell....

Think of the difference in the cost...the level of commitment and cost is radically different...

Sidders concludes this illustration saying: "Pledging allegiance is one thing, but proving it is another.  That's true of allegiance to a country, and it is also true of allegiance to Christ."  

Have you pledged allegiance to Jesus?  What is it costing you?

Maybe you say "I am bearing my cross...I am suffering for Jesus."  The problem is to many of us are suffering, b/c of bad choices we have made and yet claim we are suffering for Jesus...really?  Why do we make those wrong choices?  B/c we are not willing to pay the price of dying to ourselves...laying down our lives, and living with our eyes focused on Him...clinging to Him...saying "I will follow Him no matter what...I will obey His teachings...I will run the race to completion...I will love my neighbor as myself...I will love God with my whole heart, mind and strength...everything"  Are you willing to lay your life down and give up everything for Jesus...Are you willing and ready to overcome your fears knowing that He is with you and will never leave you or forsake you?  Are you willing to stop and take an inventory of your life/heart and say "there are things here that I do not like and I need to get rid of them with the help of the Holy Spirit and God's grace."  So many of us willingly stay in our hurts, habits and hang-ups b/c we are not ready or willing to pay the price of letting it go...Are you ready to let control go?  That is what it will cost you to follow Jesus.  I struggle with that...when do I get frustrated and angry?  When I feel like I am not in control. That doesn't mean I am out of control of my feelings...rather it means I do not feel like I have my hands around this situation and I can control it...are you willing to let control go and let Jesus?

At the end of the day when we line up what it costs us to follow Jesus and what we get back is there any comparison?  No, but it sure feels like letting go and letting God is costly...what will it cost you to serve your spouse better.....even if you get nothing in return?  What will it cost you to serve your children? Neighbors?  What will it cost you to do that?  Where is the line in the sand where you say "I will go with you this far Jesus and no further...past this point it is too costly to follow you?"  I can't forgive my neighbor for letting their dog run on my yard...seems trivial doesn't it?  But stop and research/reflect on Matthew West's song "Forgiveness" based on a mother being willing to take the costly step of forgiving the man who killed her daughter in a dui accident b/c she had received grace and forgiveness from Jesus...that had to be one of the toughest/costliest things to do and yet if we are disciples of Jesus that is what Jesus calls us to do...have you counted the cost? Are you willing to go beyond that line in the sand with Jesus?

There are some individuals that want me to preach against a variety of sins and condemn "those" people out there, but my challenge back to them is "What if 'those' people became your neighbor? How would you love them? How would you minister to them? How would you love them more than yourself?" B/c that is what Jesus calls us to do when He says "count the cost."  Are you willing to pay that cost? Or are you going to be like the guy who started building and didn't have a credit card and everyone began to mock him...or will you finish?

When you come up against tough sayings in Scripture what are you tempted to do?  It is easy to say "Jesus didn't really mean that...He didn't really mean that I am to love my neighbor as myself...He wants me to prosper...he wants me to stay in my hurts b/c I am comfortable here...it's too costly to break out of that..."  When you come against tough sayings you have a choice...either dig deeper and seek understanding or ignore it..."  What do you do with passages like today's where it says "Hate your spouse" and other passages that say "Love your spouse"...again with a little digging you will quickly come to understand that there isn't contradiction just a challenge to keep things in their proper place and trust Jesus....He has your best interest in mind...even when it seems like He doesn't...

For many of us when we look at the part about the king that has 10,000 coming against the one with 20,000 we quickly say..."I can take them...with just the right plans/strategy I will conquer"  But we have to step back and ask "What is Jesus asking me to do here?"  Maybe we should ask "Can I with 10,000 come against God and His 20,000...maybe I need to count the cost and accept the peace that He offers through Jesus...and then be willing to be salt and light in this world no matter what"...salt in Jesus day was a preservative (including preserving manure so that it could release it's nutrients at the proper time)...are you willing to be a preservative bringing about the transformation of society no matter the cost? Are you willing to step out of your comfort zone?  Maybe you are an introvert...are you willing to step out and talk to one person? Some might say, "But pastor you just don't understand...they are going to mock me, spit on me...ridicule me."  So what, Jesus said they would do that, but He also promised that He had overcome the world and would go there with you...are you willing to step out with Him? Sure it is going to be costly, but the cost is only for a little while...this world is fleeting...the return on that investment (cost) is eternal...

The challenge for us is what will you change or do differently this week, b/c of what Jesus has done for you?  What will you give up...what cost will you pay b/c Jesus is everything?  Or where is that line in the sand? What will it look like to move and step over that line and go deeper with Jesus?  Why? So that Jesus can touch and transform the world through you. If we are going to be agents of transformation and see lives transformed we have to say that we have counted the cost, we understand that in the end it is not costly at all, we are going to give up everything for you Jesus, so that we can be salt in this world, so that we can be your disciples that love you and obey you.  Take some time this week to wrestle with the tough sayings of Jesus and then say "But they are not tough b/c I have everything in Him and Him alone..."

By His Grace and for His Glory,
Blessings,
PT

Transformational Church Engage: Mission

Text: Acts 6-9

Link: Engage: Mission

I am coming to realize that we allow life to become way to busy and being a "bear of little brain" I am slow to bring about the change needed to deal with that issue...but deal with that one must if we are going to truly Engage Mission.  This is the last message in a series on the we at Faith have been walking through based on the new church scorecard that Ed Stezer and Thom S. Rainer lay out in the book Transformational Church.

If you look at Scripture you quickly come to an understanding that God is a missionary God.  Adam and Eve were created good with the mandate to fill all of creation with God's glory, but sin entered in and separated us from God and the opportunity to fulfill our mandate...did God leave us there?  No God being a missionary God sent His Son to redeem us and get us back on Mission...

The scorecard basically starts with: Discern: Missionary Mindset...once we discern that we need to Embrace it and if we do that we will have Vibrant Leadership, Relational Intentionality and Prayerful Dependence...once we embrace we will need to then Engage...this is where Worship, Community and Mission come in...if we discern something and embrace it the question becomes if we never engage in it do we truly discern and embrace?  You can "know" things, but until you take steps of obedience you are not really engaging in it.

Intro Questions:

- What are the two key terms of the Great Commission?

Go and Make...it doesn't say know a lot about God, but rather "Go and Make Disciples"

- How do you know that you are fulfilling the Great Commission?

Scenario 1: I go to a parking lot and place tracts under the windshield wipers of every car...Have I fulfilled the Great Commission? No, but there are a lot of people that believe that is what it looks like.

Scenario 2:  I go over to my neighbors and invite them to church and they come to church....have I fulfilled the Great Commission?  No, but for so long the church in America has equated invitation with evangelism...for so long we have equated discipleship with pray a prayer...pray some more...show up on Sunday morning, put some money in a plate and if I am just a faithful attender then I am somehow fulfilling the Great Commission or at a minimum my "obligation" to God...we need to move beyond just getting people to church on Sunday morning to disciple making.

When does discipleship start?  When you share the gospel with someone and they "accept" Jesus and pray a prayer?  No...discipleship starts before that...look at the Gospels...read through each one of them and you will see that the disciples were disciples before they professed Jesus as the Son of God/Savior of the world...discipleship starts before evangelism or salvation...

If we understand this we will be intentional with/in our relationships...reaching out, sharing, talking about this great God that we serve we will be in the process of fulfilling the Great Commission.  We do have to be careful that the pendulum doesn't swing so far in the other direction that all we ever do is "relate" to people but never share about Jesus.  We need to be intentional in our relationships that we are looking for opportunities to speak Jesus into the lives of those around us.  The "go" in the Great Commission should be "as you go about your daily lives make disciples."

The two keys are "Go" and "Make"...

Main Point:  The good news of the Gospel should motivate us to be passionate about making disciples.

"Transformational Churches have created a setting where the mature are encouraged to lead the immature.  They help the immature see where they are missing the mission.  Leadership is established along the lines of helping  people see and participate in the mission rather than stagnate at one phase of development."

Paul challenges us in 1 Corinthians that we ought to be moving from milk to solid food...Missional Communities and Life Transformation Groups are key to moving people to maturity...so many people sit in the pews on Sunday morning and say "that was a nice sermon" of "that was an interesting sermon" or "I have no clue what he was talking about."  We sit in our community group and just ask "What questions do you have based on what was preached in the morning"...it is great b/c one lady opens up her notebook and just asks questions and we provide clarity...or what a great opportunity as our kids sit in with us and see the parents wrestling with Scripture and how it applies to life and sometimes the kids teach us what it looks like...why do we do this?  So we move beyond where we are at, becoming so motivated by the good news of the Gospel that you are passionate about talking about Him and how this word relates to your life...at this point we listened to Matthew West's song Hello My Name Is..."  Do you resonate with this song? Do you believe that you are a child of the One True King?  We can get excited about this song but if we are not careful we will let it all be individual and my relationship with Jesus...the fact that I am a child of the One True King...that is great news...that you can be a child of the One True King...but if it is just about me and Jesus I am missing the boat...that truth should motivate me to want to come alongside others letting the broken hearted, down trodden, depressed, isolated (and the list goes on) know that they don't have to stay there...we need to move beyond its about me and Jesus to its me and Jesus and him working through me...that is what we see in Acts...the first part of Acts gives us a picture of community, but community that has part of it hurting b/c a different part of the body was being selfish.  Did the Apostles succumb to rushing to deal with it?  No they stuck to what they were supposed to be doing...no they raised up a bunch of bus boys...but did those bus boys say "Thank God I am not an Apostle, so I do not have to be about pray and proclamation."
 
3 Examples:

- Bus boy to Martyr

Rather Stephen moves from bus boy to martyr, b/c he is about the business of making disciples...now it would be easy for us to say "Thank God I am not being called to be a martyr..." but you are called to be about the business of making disciples and in the midst of that you may be called to be a martyr...there are an awful lot of individuals in Iraq who are being called to lay their lives down b/c they are Christians...you may not be in a place where you experience that, but are we not called daily to lay our self interest/lives down to go and make disciples?

Stephen preaches a message...he takes them through the story from Abraham forward...in the midst of trying to disciple them he lays his life down...I do not know a lot about Stephen, but I do not think that he had a seminary degree or attended the theological school of his day...but what he did have was the Holy Spirit...all believers have the same thing that Stephen had...and if we tune our hearts to listen to the Holy Spirit we too will know what to say and to whom to say it...Stephen was "just a bus boy" and yet he was a child of the One True King who passionately proclaimed the good news and made disciples...


- Bus boy to on the road

If you want to shy away from being a martyr then take a look at another bus boy named Phillip...why do bad things happen to the church?  Sometimes they are allowed to get us out of our comfort zones and back on mission...what are some of the other parts of the Great Commission?  The Jerusalem to the ends of the earth...persecution pushed them out...Phillip first goes to Samaria...a place no good Jew would go...and yet here we have Phillip going and them receiving the good news...they did not stop proclaiming b/c persecution broke out but rather they continued to proclaim b/c they knew that they were children of the One True King...next we see God saying rise and go...and what did Phillip do?  He rose and went...it doesn't say rise and sit...God says go and God works it out in such a way that it was teed up for Phillip to knock it out of the park...many of us say "Yeah, but God doesn't tee it up for me like that..."  What are we talking about?  God sends us daily into places where he has it teed up for us...we just aren't looking or going...Phillip provides is the example to go on the road to wherever and whomever God sends us...Phillip begins by disciplining the Eunuch...do you think that the Eunuch left without the understanding that he was supposed to go and make disciples?

- Persecutor to fully devoted

Chapter 9 God gets a hold of Saul just like he gets a hold of you as well, but he doesn't leave you there...but rather He challenges us to "go and make disciples"...

Assignment:

To whom is God sending you to go and make disciples of them?

Stephen, Phillip, Saul/Paul give us examples of what it looks like to be on mission telling God's story, proclaiming His good news to the ends of the earth...

Who are the 1 - 3 individuals that God is sending you to?  Pray for them by name and start looking for opportunities to speak Jesus into their lives...there are opportunities all over the place...God is in the business of sending us to target rich environments to share His story in such a way that it is good news...the opportunities are out there...go and make disciples.